As a Manifestation Coach, I get a lot of people coming to me wanting to know how they can manifest their soulmate.
More and more I am seeing requests from men and women alike who desire to get out of the dating scene and settle down with their one and only.
In fact, out of all the things I help people use the law of attraction for, manifesting a soulmate seems to be the one that holds the most importance.
And I get why!
Manifesting a soulmate is an issue particularly close to my heart because I was single for 5 years straight!
I remember crying in the back of taxi's at 3am sobbing to myself that I was never going to meet the one!
So I know what it’s like to want (more than anything) to manifest your soulmate.
But what I also know, is that it doesn’t have to be that way!
You have the power to manifest your soulmate - you just have to know how!
In all my years of practicing the law of attraction, helping friends, family members and clients manifest love (as well as manifesting my own soulmate), I have narrowed the process down to 3 key steps.
How to Manifest Your Soulmate
The 3 key steps:
Heal from past lovers.
This is such a critical step in manifesting your soulmate but often one that is overlooked.
How can you expect to attract a loving relationship when you are energetically still caught up with your ex?
This is like walking around with a sign on your forehead that reads “unavailable”.
The universe can pick up on those #vibes and so can your future prospects!
You need to rid yourself of that person for good, or at least until you have manifested your soulmate!
This may sound harsh, but keeping that person around will affect your chances of calling in the one, so it’s better to make a clean break and (if you wish) resume a friendship at a later date.
In addition to removing them physically, you also need to remove them energetically.
One of the healing exercises I perform with my clients is an energetic cord cutting that allows the person to resolve their past issues and break free from their ex lover.
You can also perform a simplified version of this yourself at home by getting into a meditative state, visualising a cord between you and your ex and then imagining yourself cutting it.
This exercise can be incredibly powerful when performed correctly and I believe is key part of being able to manifest your soulmate!
*If you are struggling to resolve past issues and cut energetic cords with your ex take a look at my coaching packages to find out how I can help.
Call in your soulmate.
The second step to manifest your soulmate is to call them in. The best way to do this is by using an ancient manifestation list writing technique.
I have used this same technique to manifest everything from apartments, jobs, a new scooter and of course my soulmate ;)
In essence, what this list does, is specify what characteristics you want your soulmate to have and then ask the universe to deliver him to you!
To write your list, all you need to do is grab a pen and paper and write down all the attributes you want your soulmate to have.
You then need to place a date on that list which states the date you want to have manifested him by.
For example: Universe please deliver my soulmate to me by the 30th June 2018 - in this lifetime please!
*Be sure to put "in this lifetime", otherwise you could end up manifesting him for next lifetime, and I'm sure that's not what you want!
After you have written the list you then need to release your desire to the universe.
You cannot be “attached” or coming from a place of “need” as this will keep him from manifesting!
*For some people this can be the hardest part of manifesting and is often the basis of the work that I do with my clients.
However hard it might seem, you need to find a way to be fulfilled without this person, for it is then that he will show up and you will have a truly successful relationship.
Become an energetic match to your soulmate.
The third and final step you need to master in order to manifest your soulmate is to become an energetic match to them!
What I mean by that is you need to be in the same vibrational field.
For example, if one of the characteristics on your manifestation list is that he needs to be fit, healthy and active, you need to ask yourself:
Am I fit, healthy and active?
If not, then you need to start acting that way!
Begin working out, change your diet or start a meditation practice!
Another example would be if you want to manifest a soulmate who is funny. You need to ask yourself:
Do I laugh often?
If not, then perhaps you should go to comedy night or watch more funny movies!
Becoming an energetic match to your soulmate works from a vibrational standpoint and a logical standpoint.
Vibrationally you start to emit a frequency out to the universe that is similar to what you want to attract back (#YourVibeAttractsYourTribe), and logically you have now put yourself in the vicinity of where this person hangs out!
Who knows, you might just meet your soulmate at the gym ;)
Lastly, I always recommend my clients spend time visualising what their life will be like when their soulmate has manifested.
I hope you enjoyed this blog post!
If you want help manifesting your soulmate get in touch with me now.
All of my coaching programs combine Advanced Manifestation Techniques, Intuitive Healing and Reprogramming the Subconscious Mind to help you easily and effortlessly attract the things you want!
And, as always, if you have any questions about manifesting your soulmate, pop them in the comments below. I would be happy to answer them.